Zukiswa Wanner

EXTRACT: London – Cape Town – Joburg by Zukiswa Wanner

A mother mourns her dead son in this extract from the unputdownable new novel

Zuko Spencer-O’Malley is dead. Dead via suicide. At the tender age of thirteen.

My son is dead.

And I failed to notice he was troubled. For three days I was too self-absorbed, so intent on changing the world that I couldn’t see the pain my child was going through. What’s more, he left the most hurtful message to me in his suicide note. Which was nothing. He said nothing to me. A testament perhaps to how insignificant I had become in his life? The letter, left on his bedside table was addressed to Dear Papa. Papa. I hadn’t heard him call Martin that since he was four. Martin. His dad. My husband.

Dear Papa, it starts. By the time you read this letter . . .

No reference to me in the address and yet I loved him. No Dear Mummy and Daddy. Nothing.

I know they had a special bond but it was me who carried him for nine months. It was me who woke up to check his cot and see whether he was still breathing when he had a cold. It was me who woke up and got him ready for school every morning while Martin slept. Granted, Martin’s schedule did not permit him to and I was willing and more flexible but still. It was me. All me. And when he hurt himself, it was me he used to come crying to when his father and stupid uncle told him that boys don’t cry.

And remembering this tosh well, even in Martin’s absence, when he would fall and hurt himself or get in a fight with a playmate he would walk “bravely” into the house. Crunched face, lower lip between his teeth, he would pull my hand to take me to his bedroom and only when we were safe there, let out the tears. After he had calmed down I would ask him what was wrong. “It’s Mike/Tyrone/Sally/Ibraheim. He hurt my feelings?” Always stated like a question.

Me (trying hard not to laugh at this child who took himself so seriously): “And how did he/she hurt your feelings, darling?”

He: “He/she called me a baby.”

Me: “But are you a baby?”

He: “No, I’m not a baby. Sally/Mike/Tyrone/Ibraheim is younger than me. She/he is a baby.”

Then I would tickle him and he would start laughing and he would say,“Sally/Mike/Tyrone/Ibraheim is just jealous of me, neh, Mummy? Because my nana is on television, neh, Mummy?”

I would nod. We would both smile, and then laugh. And it would be all right with the world.

So where did I go wrong? Where did I lose my son? Was it not me who asked Gladness to teach me how to braid so I could cornrow his hair when he went through that hair-braiding phase? So why his bloody goddamn, Dear Papa? Why not me? Why did he not talk to me before he did this dastardly, pathetic, yet oh-so-brave act? And yes, I said brave. I’ve always believed it takes a brave person to end it all. To decide there are no more options in life except to finish oneself.

Why did he not say something to me? It’s through his bloody Comrade Daddy that this has happened. Oh, maybe I should not apportion blame, because I know Martin hurts as much as I do, but dammit!

I never understood it before, when people said love leaves one feeling vulnerable. I understand it now.

If only Zuko had talked to me, I would have gone to the ends of the earth to help him but no, he chose this route. He chose this route and did not even bother to say goodbye to me, his mummy. I look at the first line again and I feel so angry, so unloved, so powerless.

It’s been a week. Every night I go to bed, my Zuko’s bed, I wish I would not wake up. I hold on to the clothes I last saw him wearing, and hope I won’t open my eyes in the morning. I wish it had been me instead of my baby. I would trade my life to see him smile again. I think of his quirky grin and I almost smile. But then I remember he died at my hands. If my doctor had not prescribed those bloody Dormicums, if I had not left them where they could be accessible to a teenager. I mean, I used to be a teenager once. I know how volatile they can be, so how did this slip my mind? I get up, realising that sleep isn’t coming. I walk out and make a phone call to Priya. My oldest friend. The one who preceded everyone else in my current life. The one who has become not just friend and sister but mother and grandmother too in this time of madness. She is the only one I can trust at this moment. Martin, Sindiwe . . . bloody fuckin’ hell, they knew, didn’t they? The twins, Mxolisi of the sad smile. How could they? I read Zuko’s journal. Nothing like that should ever happen to any child. Why didn’t I notice anything? What kind of mother am I, was I?

I call Priya. Always, but always, she is a rock. She talks me through another night. She wasn’t there for the memorial service. She offered to fly down but I told her it was okay. It wasn’t really but I couldn’t tear her from her Vidi and Pashi who are also probably in mourning since they have known Zuko all their lives.

I wish my mummy had made it, though. I know she had her own problems but if there was a time I needed her, now is it.

But I take what I can get and call Priya. Her voice is enough balm for my tortured mind. Having her hold my hand, even figuratively, suffices to make me want to live another day, to make me try to work another day. It is then that I find myself going to bed and having a few hours of peaceful sleep. But then I wake up and when I go into the shower in Zuko’s bathroom, I remember what it was like finding my baby lying in the bathtub next to the shower. I used to love luxuriating in the bath but now I can only shower. The sight of the bathtub makes the memory all fresh again.

Did he not love me? Did I fail him? In telling him that “coloured” was a southern African label that seeks to separate Africans, in adopting the more American label of “black” instead of the British one of “biracial”, did I inadvertently deny him my heritage so that he could not come to me when it mattered most?

I read the letter again, I do not know why. I know each word as if it’s tattooed on my heart. I put it back in my cardigan pocket and mouth the words I know by heart. It is then I decide: today is the day I’ll show Martin. He too needs to hurt like I hurt. He has to doubt himself like I doubt myself. He too needs to know: we failed Zuko.

London – Cape Town – Joburg by Zukiswa Wanner Extracted from London – Cape Town – Joburg, published by Kwela Books and available from Kalahari.com. Read AERODROME’s review of the book here.

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